Affiliate since: 12/30/2020, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Rainne's 13 other Ask SC answers

How do you handle being rejected over and over again? No one likes being rejected but rejection is a part of the process. If you don't ask or don't try are you ever going to succeed at anything? Of course not. I thought of the Inventor, Thomas Edison. There are different schools of thought as to how many times Edison failed before successfully inventing the light bulb. Some say he tried 10,000 times, others say it was 3,000 times or 1,000 times. The bottom line is Edison tried and tried until he got it right.

It was stated that a reporter asked Edison about all his failures. Edison simply stated, 'It just meant that I was that many times closer to success.' What a splendid attitude to have.

The best way I've found to handle rejection is to keep my "WHY" before me. I known why I am in this business, what I want from it and I keep that ever before me. I keep a positive mental attitude and I believe in myself and my ability to succeed. You don't fail until you quit...Edison is proof that winners don't quit no matter how many times they fail at a particular task. Each rejection gives you an opportunity to sharpen your skills and approach. Think of it as growth and progress. Everything we do to move our business forward is progress and rejection is unfortunately a part of the path towards being a successful individual. All successful people had to cross "the bridge of REJECTION." it's inevitable.

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How do you handle being rejected over and over again? No one likes being rejected but rejection is a part of the process. If you don't ask or don't try are you ever going to succeed at anything? Of course not. I thought of the Inventor, Thomas Edison. There are different schools of thought as to how many times Edison failed before successfully inventing the light bulb. Some say he tried 10,000 times, others say it was 3,000 times or 1,000 times. The bottom line is Edison tried and tried until he
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Affiliate since: 07/28/2013, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Ingrid 's 138 other Ask SC answers

David,

We have all been there. Even me! Every time you go into a situation that doesn’t go as you expected you experience rejection. This leaves a feeling of being inadequate. It can be mentally draining even for an experienced businessman.
Recognize that the person is not rejecting you. Rejection is the person opinion. Accept that person’s opinion at that time. Realize that sometimes rejection is the result of people’s inability to see your point or just plain ignorance - a flaw within them, not you.

The most successful people in sales learn to overcome rejection. A ‘No’ simply means ‘No’. It does not mean they don’t like you and it certainly does not mean they will not join your team at another time. Focus on going through more potential clients. Whether they say yes or no is not under your control. Put the ‘No’s in your favour and approach enough people until someone says 'yes'.

In order to get one 'yes' you may have to face 50 or even 100 'No's. You can say it’s a numbers game. It may be to just move on to another individual. You can approach the same person at another time, as their circumstances may have changed.
You can make the choice to overcome rejection, Value your quality and focus on your strengths.

Be convinced of your business and look at areas where you have even more potential to achieve success. Believe in something larger than you - SFI, the larger picture. You belong to a large family of affiliates. You are not alone!
I once read that ‘Yes’ and ‘No’ are Siamese twins. You must go through the ‘Nos’ to be successful. The road to success is paired with failure. When you have made your successful team, no one will brother with the number of rejections you had. Not even you!

Now, if you ever get emotional over a rejection just remember we all at SFI love you and appreciate you being a part of our team. We are a big family. You can count on any one of us, your a2a friends, your upline, your budding affiliate to give support and encouragement. Look at rejection as an opportunity to grow. Use it as a stepping stone to move on rather than a stumbling block.

All the best, my friend.

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David,

We have all been there. Even me! Every time you go into a situation that doesn’t go as you expected you experience rejection. This leaves a feeling of being inadequate. It can be mentally draining even for an experienced businessman.
Recognize that the person is not rejecting you. Rejection is the person opinion. Accept that person’s opinion at that time. Realize that sometimes rejection is the result of people’s inability to see your point or just plain ignorance
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Affiliate since: 03/27/2013, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Stefan's 93 other Ask SC answers

Good question.

The best method of handling rejection is to take it as positive criticism and leverage why they are rejecting you. Find out what they are thinking that makes them won't to reject you. Consider that a favor to you. It is a healthy approach to accept rejection as is a part of life and to acknowledge that what makes the difference is how you rebound and keep going and use it as a learning experience and nothing more than that.

So, acknowledge the rejection. Be honest too when you explain SFI as stretching truths will be easily noticed. Don't tell people,what you want them to hear, tell them the truth even of some aspects are not great, honestly is best.

Second, listen to their concern, understand why they think they do and if you then understand why they are rejecting you, perhaps then, you can counter the rejection by answering probing questions like,if it were this way then what would be your thoughts now.

Be sure to reiterate what makes SFI unique despite rejection and clearly articulate the silver bullets which differentiate SFI from similar ventures.

Last but not least, you can still offer a some sort of incentive to get them to bite so you can show them that what you state is not fluff but genuine. Do this legally and not against rules of course but by offering to help them to be successful the first month or two gives you time to prove your case.

This is really it. Hope this was useful information

Good luck.



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Good question.

The best method of handling rejection is to take it as positive criticism and leverage why they are rejecting you. Find out what they are thinking that makes them won't to reject you. Consider that a favor to you. It is a healthy approach to accept rejection as is a part of life and to acknowledge that what makes the difference is how you rebound and keep going and use it as a learning experience and nothing more than that.

So, acknowledge the rejection. Be
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Affiliate since: 10/05/2011, Power Rank: 428 | Read Francis's 105 other Ask SC answers

Hello David,

When you are rejected during advertising, it offers us two opportunities: firstly, it is an opportunity to re-examine your own methods and secondly, it is a chance to move on to something better. A prophet is only a carrier of the message; he is not the message himself. So when you are rejected, do not take it personal. So let us look at these two opportunities:

1 Method of approach: In a lecture, sometimes students can be put off by the way the lecturer is teaching. This implies presentation is very important in getting your message through to the audience. When it comes to advertising, I think the secrete is to do it with a smile and without being seen to be nagging the recipients of your message.

2. Something Better? Every rejection is a blessing in disguise. It allows us to look at other ways. When we fall, we have not failed if we can stand up and continue.
You will recall that in 1914, Thomas Edison invented the phonograph, only three weeks after all his work had gone up in smoke in a fire in his factory Unlike what most of us would do after surveying our ruins, the next morning, Edison, did not say, “Oh my God, what shall I do?” Instead, he shouted, “There is great value in disaster. All our mistakes are burned up. Thank God, we can start again.”
As another great man, Bob Marley once sung, “When one door is closed, many more is open.”
In conclusion, don’t let those who reject your adverts throw you off course. Maintain your belief and confidence. Your persistence will finally pay off. Like a captain of a ship sometimes you will face strong winds but continue sailing.

Cheers!



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Hello David,

When you are rejected during advertising, it offers us two opportunities: firstly, it is an opportunity to re-examine your own methods and secondly, it is a chance to move on to something better. A prophet is only a carrier of the message; he is not the message himself. So when you are rejected, do not take it personal. So let us look at these two opportunities:

1 Method of approach: In a lecture, sometimes students can be put off by the way the lecturer
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Affiliate since: 07/28/2013, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Toni's 5 other Ask SC answers

Dear David,

That's an excellent question and it needed to be asked sooner or later.

When it comes to online jobs, you take negativity and rejection as part of the job. People are always skeptical to new things, and considering the internet is barely of legal age in most countries, it's still pretty new to most of the generations. It's even more of an obstacle as it's virtual where in contrary most people have learned that "working a real job" is what gets you paid.

In due time, the skepticism will get blown away by worldwide proof of people succeeding and the abstract internet is going to become a stable financial partner for generations to come.

You always have 2 choices when you're facing negativity and rejection :

a) You can leave it be, take it as it is and stop doing what you're good at or

b) Keep your positive attitude and try to convince people you're not offering them an execution but a business opportunity.

Like it or not, the fact that you're going to succeed or not is up to you and your attitude. Don't let contemporary failure get the best of you and simply keep doing what you do and follow the rules of success. Sooner or later, you're going to make it!

See you at the top!

Cheers!
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Dear David,

That's an excellent question and it needed to be asked sooner or later.

When it comes to online jobs, you take negativity and rejection as part of the job. People are always skeptical to new things, and considering the internet is barely of legal age in most countries, it's still pretty new to most of the generations. It's even more of an obstacle as it's virtual where in contrary most people have learned that "working a real job" is what gets you paid.

In
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Affiliate since: 08/21/2013, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Julia's 1 other Ask SC answers

Rejection can be quite demoralizing that's for sure. Do not take the rejection personally.
Take the rejection as a reason for looking at your presentation.
Too much information is confusing & too much to absorb. This is where so many prospects are lost. Information overload. Try working on the "K.I.S.S." system.
"Keep It Simple Sam/Samantha".

Nothing to lose as all are FREE to join.

PriceBenders = Fantastic Auctions, huge savings off retail.
TripleClicks = Huge Department Store/Shopping Center online.
ECA = Your own E-Commerce Store with world wide exposure for your store.
SFI = Building your own business with great training, company & team support all free.

On top of all those benefits,the bonus chances of winning free entry competitions.

Let your prospect absorb the basics.

You may sign some people up with the basic knowledge. Others may take 2 or 3 info meetings. These sign ups will be quality, well informed people that really want to work @ their/your business.
Go for quality over quantity leads every time. It will save you a lot of work in the future.
Just my thoughts & hope this is of some help.
Cheers.
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Rejection can be quite demoralizing that's for sure. Do not take the rejection personally.
Take the rejection as a reason for looking at your presentation.
Too much information is confusing & too much to absorb. This is where so many prospects are lost. Information overload. Try working on the "K.I.S.S." system.
"Keep It Simple Sam/Samantha".

Nothing to lose as all are FREE to join.

PriceBenders = Fantastic Auctions, huge savings off
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Affiliate since: 06/04/2013, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Aleksandar's 2 other Ask SC answers

Negative people will try to bring you down to their level. Do not argue. Allow negative talk to bounce off you. Don't waste too much time trying to convince them, it may not be possible.
We must understand that any online earning program is a suspect for scam, because the reality is there are many in the internet which belong to scam type. Therefore when you present SFI to others there will be a lot of NO answer.
It is really not easy, and just like I say every member of my team ,the three main KEYS are:
(1)KNOWLEDGE
(2)PERSEVERANCE
(3)DETERMINATION
It is frustrating being rejected, but we have to accept that not everyone has the same capacity for challenge , and don't have the same eyes to see further ,to see the opportunity even as good as SFI...
I really hope that this will help.

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Negative people will try to bring you down to their level. Do not argue. Allow negative talk to bounce off you. Don't waste too much time trying to convince them, it may not be possible.
We must understand that any online earning program is a suspect for scam, because the reality is there are many in the internet which belong to scam type. Therefore when you present SFI to others there will be a lot of NO answer.
It is really not easy, and just like I say every member of my team ,the three
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Affiliate since: 01/13/2006, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Michael's 101 other Ask SC answers

Hi David and all other SFI Affiliates

For me rejection is a part of business. Without rejection you cannot improve your presentation.

Also understand that it takes most people 7 times to be exposed to something new before they will accept it as being real. That is why you see the repetitive advertising on TV and on billboards.

A tactic I use for sponsoring and to avoid rejection is to go to the same place at the same time over and over. This could be business network meetings or picking the children up from school.

You will begin to recognise people's faces as being there at the same time as you are. Smile and say hello because they will be recognising you too. As you progress with this 'familiarisation process' start to have conversations and mention SFI each time.

I highly recommend having a slogan. When asked what you do say something like:

'I help people improve their finances through home based business, so they can move upward with their lives'

Because of the slow exposure you are giving SFI they will become more interested and they will as you. This is the time you need to be ready to present your business to them. Have it clear in your head what you are going to say and practice it before you say it. The more confidence you have the more confidence they are going to have in you and your business.

If your business is rejected it will be because:

1. You have not presented it with confidence and knowledge. You need to practice more. To find out if this is the case ASK the person you have presented to. Most people will want to help and in asking this question they may become MORE interested.

2. This business is not for them. Move on to your next prospect. You should have one ready because the 'familiarisation process' is sequential.

3. They are not ready at the moment. This is OK. Continue to be friendly and let them see you talking to other people about your business.

At no time do I encourage 'false friendships' or 'flattery'. That only leads to problems. Always be genuine with those around you or you will be seen as a fraud and that will do a lot of damage to your reputation and that of your business.

As Always

"Lucky Number Seven Brings People Together"
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Hi David and all other SFI Affiliates

For me rejection is a part of business. Without rejection you cannot improve your presentation.

Also understand that it takes most people 7 times to be exposed to something new before they will accept it as being real. That is why you see the repetitive advertising on TV and on billboards.

A tactic I use for sponsoring and to avoid rejection is to go to the same place at the same time over and over. This could be business network
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Affiliate since: 07/16/2013, Power Rank: 99999999

I personally feel that you should accept the rejections as a stepping stone of success. Take it positively. Try finding what and why they have rejected. Surely they do not reject you. Sit back and think about the rejections of the SFI presentation. When others are successful, why not you?

The idea of SFI business may not be to their liking or they may feel that there is no success and benefit for them working with SFI. Focus on your goals. Work consistently and achieve success for yourself in SFI. When you can do this, you will be amazed to see the result will make the difference for them and you. They might feel that they should join you to become successful in life.

Now, focus on yourself and keep trying again and again. If you can recruit 3 good PSA under you after 100 presentations you are the WINNER.

All the BEST

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I personally feel that you should accept the rejections as a stepping stone of success. Take it positively. Try finding what and why they have rejected. Surely they do not reject you. Sit back and think about the rejections of the SFI presentation. When others are successful, why not you?

The idea of SFI business may not be to their liking or they may feel that there is no success and benefit for them working with SFI. Focus on your goals. Work consistently and achieve success for yourself
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Affiliate since: 06/14/2013, Power Rank: 99999999 | Read Fwangshak's 34 other Ask SC answers

It is very normal for anybody to reject SFI business,simply because it is also an online business. Many unsuccessful online business has been existing and as a result many people have experienced them as waist of time and resources.
And because they don't want to be victims to wasting of time and resources,they are always very difficult to convince even when what you telling them is real and lucrative in SFI.

So I think they will always want or need physical prove on how real and lucrative SFI is by showing them what they need to know practically with any evidence around you. Do not matter how long it takes to make them understand how good and lucrative this business is..don't forget that you need them just the way they also need you. Do not tell them what is not inclusive in SFI,tell them just the truth about it.
Nothing good comes easy and never give up on what is right because you will live to receive testimonies and praises beyond your imagination.

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It is very normal for anybody to reject SFI business,simply because it is also an online business. Many unsuccessful online business has been existing and as a result many people have experienced them as waist of time and resources.
And because they don't want to be victims to wasting of time and resources,they are always very difficult to convince even when what you telling them is real and lucrative in SFI.

So I think they will always want or need physical prove on how real and
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