Getting your spouse in this business is o.k. if they agree to do the grunt work.
I would let them do my e-mails.That would take a few hours of training.
Then move on to letting them place your ads where they keep your ad on their
site.That would take an hour to learn.
As far as playing games with me,that is illegal in my book or should be illegal.
Doing the To Do List should be done by me.