I like your question because it puts the affiliate first, although to my mind, this question practically answers itself: Put yourself at your affiliates' service, learning about them by asking them about their lives, what brings them into SFI, and then showing them exactly how to achieve their personal goals. You simply let them *learn* what to do from you rather than attempting to force them to follow, and instead, you can be seen as caring and nurturing rather than as a dictator.
