Dear Damien
I identify with you because I remember during my first months as a newbie SFI Affiliate I really needed a mentor to help me through the many questions I had regarding the business since my sponsor was not so visible. It was not easy to get one. It takes time especially if you are contacting someone who is new to you and who you are new to.
I am glad now that I have some mentors especially in my up line that I can reach out to for help anytime.
A mentor is a person or friend who guides a less experienced person by building trust and modeling positive behaviors. An effective mentor understands that his or her role is to be dependable, engaged, authentic, and tuned into the needs of the mentee.
While I have mentors from both my Up line and in the A2A, I think you would have a better chance of getting one if you asked from your Up line. What kind of mentor are you looking for? For me I was looking for a mentor with the following qualities
Leads by Example
I was looking for a mentor with a proven track record. Someone who has been there,seen it and done it and their success is evidenced by what their badges have to say.
A Character Builder – providing me with an honest assessment of his or her strengths and weaknesses and helping me acquire the confidence and tools to function in the competitive world of SFI business.
Understands the importance of networking and helps me build my own network.
Models the highest ethical standards.
Works to guide me toward independence and career success in SFI
A Team Player – receptive to my need for other mentors
Accessible and Available – willing to get to know me and keep in touch, understanding that the frequency depends on my needs. I was glad to get someone who was just that. One of my mentors has had open and frequent communication with me severally despite his busy schedule.
Has Willingness to share skills, knowledge, and expertise. A good mentor should accept you the way you are. The mentor does not take the mentoring relationship lightly and understands that good mentoring requires time and commitment and is willing to continually share information and their ongoing support with the you.
Additionally;
A good Mentor- Values the opinions and initiatives of others.
- Sets and meets ongoing personal and professional goals.
- Is Respected by colleagues in all levels of SFI corporate & Down line.
- Provides guidance and constructive feedback.
- Values ongoing learning for himself and growth in the SFI Business
- Takes a personal interest in the mentoring relationship.
- And lastly Demonstrates a positive attitude and acts as a positive role model.
I must say though that it's gonna be tricky and a little challenging to find one with all of the above qualities but you sure can. Just keep trying till you get one. I am fortunate to have one mentor me.
Best Wishes!
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