Life in general is made up of positives and negatives. Consider this' there's optimism and pessimisn, pros and cons,fear and courage, day and night,light and dark,good and evil,sweet and sour etc. One would be meaningless without the other.Some will win while others are loosing in the game of life. The world is not perfect and things will not always work according to your plans and expectations. Thats why goals can be adjusted and U-Turns are permitted.
Consequently if there was never a thing as rejection no one would know acceptance, and if there was never failure what would success be? My point is this "negativity is normal" The real problem is how it's dealt with.
Now as I attempt to analyse and respond to the inquiry, I will awake you to the fact that "NO" does not always mean "NO". Sometimes "NO" can mean not now, I'm not ready,I'm not looking because I'm pretty solid financially. However should there be company down sizing, or lay-offs or some unforeseen event, every thing changes. Again the emotions experienced from an opposite negative reaction was not directed at you personally. It's was against the opportunity or invitation to action that's been brought under fire or is been resisted.In our arena of business you must have the Rhino mentality.... tough skin. He only uses the horn when engaged in combat.
On the other hand people have a fear the unknown. The negative reaction may be the result of a bad experience. There are genuine and legitimate companies like SFI and there are ponzee schemes resulting in multiplied billions been fraudulently taken from unsuspecting victims. Besides, why should anyone opt into your business opportunity? Is it because they sre family, or because friends do what friends do? Much less a total stranger!Rejection from your warm market and cold calling is a fact of business. The fact is some will, some won't .... Gerry.If every person was after the same things in life there would added chaos, because the demand would be more than the supply.
Now it's time to move forward and this poses a challenge to many.Nevertheless it's not inevitable or problematic as as one may be prone to think. Here's the antidote for the venom of negativity.
1.Have a "why" or "reason" for doing what you're doing. Is it to live the life that you dreab of, financial freedom, spending time with your family, getting up when you're finish sleeping, or fishing on a Monday?
2.Set your goals with the expected time for accomplishment. You must set you sails to capture the wind.Zig Zigler.
3.Use all available means necessary.Let no one define who you are.If you don't beleive what you know to be true about you you will beleive what soneone else says.Don't let America or anyone determine that you're an idol.Don't let the analyst, the media or the fans tell you who you are. Now keep your head erect , square your shoulders and put some spring in your steps. Warm Regards..
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Life in general is made up of positives and negatives. Consider this' there's optimism and pessimisn, pros and cons,fear and courage, day and night,light and dark,good and evil,sweet and sour etc. One would be meaningless without the other.Some will win while others are loosing in the game of life. The world is not perfect and things will not always work according to your plans and expectations. Thats why goals can be adjusted and U-Turns are permitted.
Consequently if there was never a thing
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